Thursday, November 27, 2008

Love...Friendship...and the minor in-betweens...

How do you know its love? How do you know you will not confuse it with friendship...perhaps a best friend!?! How do you know its him/her? How do you know...?

These and many more questions have been flying in and out of my brain. And trust me, it nearly drove me nuts one day. 

When I look at my best friend, I know that he will be there for me whenever possible. He will try to drive in some sense into me to follow my heart. And perhaps help me follow it if I seem to be stumbling alone. I know I can call him any time...and if he, hopefully, hears it ring...he'll pick it up and tell me something that might cheer me up!
And I know I'd do the same.

I would not mind sharing a hug with him. I would not mind even kissing him perhaps. But I wonder, is it just friendship? I know its not love. Then, I guess its an in-between.
Is it that way for him too? Well, I hope so...because one day, years after today, if we grew out of touch, I'll know he was one of the dearest things that happened to me.

I thank whoever needs to be thanked for this wonderfully confusing gift...
And I'll celebrate by pulling his cheeks, hugging him tight and perhaps drowning him in kisses...
But I'll make sure his girlfriend doesnt mind...for her, I'd say "Gurl...chillax! He's booked his heart you!"

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love Ya Yaar Thanks......

Anonymous said...

asked me na!! y i am not a gal?
bt today... me serious, i wouldn't regret if i were one... Jst ta see ya HAPPY :-)

Crazy-Insane said...

aww...thnx a ton Sweety...
n here is whn i ask u....kaash tu gurl hota yarr...
muahh...

Anonymous said...

awwwwwwwww........dat was sooooo cute ........n true....!!!!

Roopika said...

It's rare to see something that touches a chord so strong.It's rare to see it all written so beautifully, so honestly when you think it's born out of the chaos of tags that the world commands you to grant every relationship in your life.

I'm sure I speak for a lot of your readers... and for those in-betweens :)

Crazy-Insane said...

I'm in love with my best friend..it feels so amazingly wonderful!Even more so because the love is reciprocated too...luv this world!!!